Tag Archives: feelings

Why “it’s not about you” is utter bullshit.

“It’s not about you.” I fucking hate it when people say that.  Because, while it may be true and healthy, it’s usually said to let someone know that their feelings are stupid. “It’s not about you… it’s about me.” That … Continue reading

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Fiery

Go Boom My mother says that we, she and I, are “brightly colored people”. My friends have described me as fiery and passionate. My husband, I suspect, just wishes I wasn’t such a bitch sometimes. And no, he would never … Continue reading

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Ugly.

I try not to think about what I look like. Instead, I tend to concentrate on how I feel.  When I’m laughing or talking or twirling, I feel happy.  I feel alive.  I feel brightly colored and twinkling and like … Continue reading

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And if not here, then where?

This is one of those days when I wish I had an anonymous blog. Or that I was better at faking it. I know people who do it.  They put on a happy face and pretend like nothing is wrong.  … Continue reading

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